Self-Acceptance
A JODO SHINSHU PARABLE (Based on Tannisho, IX)
This story can be used for both adults and children. I
have used it three times in church services. The younger
children are fascniated by a tree that refuses to grow and
the older ones going through their teenage years find it a
cause for reflection.
Once, there was a giant oak tree. It stood in the middle of
a park so it had never felt the touch of axe or saw. It
grew to full size with great out-stretched branches, larger
than most trees. Many animals and birds made their homes in
the tree. They ate the acorns that dropped onto the grass
beneath. What fun it was for the to romp in the piles of
colorful autumn leaves. Some of the acorns eventually grew
into trees as well.
The neighbors who lived near the park planted the acorns in
their own yards because they admired the oak tree so much.
One of the most promising of the acorns in the park
resisted growing into an oak tree. It had overheard stories
of the massive felling of trees and of lightening. so, it
lay passive in the soil of the park for two whole winters.
The acorn said, “I’m now planted in the earth, but I refuse
to grow. I intend to stay an acorn forever.”
Even a park attendant’s kindly attentions, the rain, and
the sun did cause the acorn to sprout.
Soon, in the third year, a small green sprout poked up
through the grass. The green shoot said, “So now, I’m
growing. But I will not grow any higher than two meters”
But, again, the park attendant's kindly attentions, the
rain and the sun did their work and the shoot grew more
than two meters in height.
The shoot had become a young sapling. The sapling said,
“Ok, so now I’m a small tree, but I will not put on
leaves.”
The park attendant came every day to attend to the tree. He
bound it against the wind and pruned its branches when
needed.
Again the seasons passed, buds appeared and then leaves.
The leaves were full and beautiful. The oak tree said, “ So
now I have leaves. But, I will not allow them to change
colors in the autumn and fall to the ground like other
trees. I refuse to let it happen.”
Still the park attendant came and fertilized the tree He
watered it in the dry seasons and even put up a birdhouse.
He noticed that small acorns were developing on the
branches.
The seasons changed so that autumn came to the park. The
leaves did change in to wonderful purple, brown, red and
yellow. The tree was a beautiful sight for all to behold.
Then there was a great windstorm. It came icy and sharp
from the North. The park attendant went to see the oak
after the storm. Some of the great branches were broken and
sagging. He cut away the broken branches and gave the tree
some tree medicine.
After the storm the leaves fell in big piles around the
tree trunk. Children came to play in the leaves. The park
attendant roasted some of the acorns for the children. A
few of the acorns nestled deep in the grass. They would
later become future trees themselves.
Animals of all kinds came to make their homes in the
spreading branches. Squirrels and birds made winter nests.
Spiders and insects found places to hide from the winter
cold. One day it was bitter cold. The park attendant came
to prop the branches up against the weight of the ice. He
piled leavers up against the trunk and placed a wire grate
around the trunk to protect it.
As the park attendant was working patiently he happened to
turn his face up towards the tree. The oak looked down into
a face that was full and round, the face of a Buddha. In
spite of the winter cold, the face had a slight glow about
it. This was the light of acceptance and deep wisdom.
Looking into that face gave the oak tree an inner peace it
had never known before. For the first time in its life the
oak tree understood the deep mystery of simply being an oak
tree.
May 23, 2002